2 years ago we were in the midst of fertility treatments for our 3rd child. It had basically been 2 years of trying by this point (not all with fertility drugs of course).
2 years ago I sat in Church with JM, and struggled not to cry during the baby dedication service. I remember it being about 8 babies, and 7 were girls. The girls were the ones that really made me sad. I realized that my heart was longing for a daughter. It was Sanctity of Life Sunday (which is how I remember).
On the way home from Church I told Dh that I did want another child, but more I wanted a daughter. I didn't care if I were ever to be pg again. I didn't care to go through the newborn stage. I didn't care where she was from, or what she looked like. I wanted a daughter. I told him I was willing to go through with the fertility treatments and if I had another boy, I wanted to have MORE children until I had a daughter. Dh, who had been resistive to international adoption but wanting domestic adoption looked at me. He told me that during the service (he sings in the choir) that he felt that he too wanted a daughter. He felt that we should adopt, and more importantly that it was China we should adopt from. He didn't have a reason WHY, he just felt that it was what we should do. (basically we both felt G*d leading us this way)
Well, from this point until February 2005 I researched China adoption. I found a few websites (mainly from Shoahannah's Hope site). I requested information. I called agencies. I browsed the blogs I came across. I got a feel for agencies (and have since learned I did not scratch the surface of agencies). I knew that China had an age rule, but I was hoping I could start NOW and that I only had to be 30 when we got the referral.
Nope...had to be 30 when we were DTC. So, I had months to wait. Good news was that we could start paperchasing when I was 29.5. We continued to TTC until I turned 29.5, but without the fertility drugs.
Since this was obviously NOT enough to keep my mind from waiting to start the paperchase, we planned a trip to Disney World. :)
Now, it's 2 years later. We're logged in, waiting on a referral. What am I doing to keep myself from obsessing over the wait? Planning a trip to Disney World! As much as things changes, some things stay the same.
Sunday, January 21, 2007
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
This is just too funny!
What Johnny Depp did when he saw Cap'n Jack for the first time on the new improved Pirates of the Carribbean ride at Disneyland. It's about the 2:15 mark.
Now, I have to admit, the Cap'n Jacks in the ride are AMAZING animatronics. Just truly AMAZING. So lifelike, and they captured the nuances of Depp's character from the movies so well.
My own little pirates are going to love this ride. Have I ever showed you all the Pirate photos I took of them? :) Well, I found 2 of Samuel.
Now, I have to admit, the Cap'n Jacks in the ride are AMAZING animatronics. Just truly AMAZING. So lifelike, and they captured the nuances of Depp's character from the movies so well.
My own little pirates are going to love this ride. Have I ever showed you all the Pirate photos I took of them? :) Well, I found 2 of Samuel.
Monday, January 15, 2007
Step away from the photolistings!
LOL
I think I've fallen in love (again). This time, I've actually written the agency (why? it's my homestudy agency who has the file!). Not sure how or if that would work, but gosh, she's gorgeous. LOL so, ALL the kids are gorgeous, but it's okay I can be biased.
It looks like the 6 month wait is going to be in effect May 1st, but my agency has not said anything...and it might even be an agency rule? Who really knows. I need to step away from the internet it seems as well.
It breaks my heart to see the photolistings though. So many children, so many little boys. I purposefully do not open the boy files. The ones that really get me are the children who are the same ages as my own children. I look at their files and wonder, are they learning to ride a bicycle? Is this 8 year old loving math? Is this 4 year old learning to count to 20? Is this 8 year old reading books? What does he (or she) think about science? I wonder what their personalities are like. It's so hard to tell from their photos, but every once in a while you can see one child who exhibits tons of personality. That one child that you look at the photo and think "oh I bet he's fun to be around" or "oh my look at that mischevious little grin" and you can fall in love...JUST.LIKE.THAT!
Our agency had one little girl, she was 6. If we were not really trying to maintain birth order, I would have had to requested more info. The info given to us was just about a perfect fit. I hope I can find out who is adopting her, because I fell in love with her too. I want to follow her adoption story, I need to see that happy ending. KWIM?
Like I said, "Step away from the photolistings!"
but if my agency and my homestudy agency could say "As you wish!" ah....my life would be a much happier one. My guess, I wait. So good at the waiting now. (well I can think I am good at the waiting)
I think I've fallen in love (again). This time, I've actually written the agency (why? it's my homestudy agency who has the file!). Not sure how or if that would work, but gosh, she's gorgeous. LOL so, ALL the kids are gorgeous, but it's okay I can be biased.
It looks like the 6 month wait is going to be in effect May 1st, but my agency has not said anything...and it might even be an agency rule? Who really knows. I need to step away from the internet it seems as well.
It breaks my heart to see the photolistings though. So many children, so many little boys. I purposefully do not open the boy files. The ones that really get me are the children who are the same ages as my own children. I look at their files and wonder, are they learning to ride a bicycle? Is this 8 year old loving math? Is this 4 year old learning to count to 20? Is this 8 year old reading books? What does he (or she) think about science? I wonder what their personalities are like. It's so hard to tell from their photos, but every once in a while you can see one child who exhibits tons of personality. That one child that you look at the photo and think "oh I bet he's fun to be around" or "oh my look at that mischevious little grin" and you can fall in love...JUST.LIKE.THAT!
Our agency had one little girl, she was 6. If we were not really trying to maintain birth order, I would have had to requested more info. The info given to us was just about a perfect fit. I hope I can find out who is adopting her, because I fell in love with her too. I want to follow her adoption story, I need to see that happy ending. KWIM?
Like I said, "Step away from the photolistings!"
but if my agency and my homestudy agency could say "As you wish!" ah....my life would be a much happier one. My guess, I wait. So good at the waiting now. (well I can think I am good at the waiting)
Sunday, January 14, 2007
SN program changes?
You know, I can handle the thought of not getting a referral until 2009. Why? Because every 3-4 months I have the "chance" of a referral from the special needs list. I have quite a few marked, I truly feel like our daughter will be from the waiting child program. However, with the changes coming in the SN process, I'm quite nervous.
No one knows for certain what will happen, but one rumor is that people logged in for more than 6 months may not choose a child off the WC list and change to the SN program. Well, crap. 6 months for us is March 2007. Our agency, during that time frame, *might* have had 2 lists come out. THAT'S not a lot to choose from. Ya know? Especially with the wait for NSN is probably going to be close to 30 months for me. Just doesn't seem right.
Now, I can see where they might say "6 months from LID" if they have the new program in place and this is for May 1st people. Or 6 months from whenever the new "online" list is available. But until then? what about those of us who do not get access to a list very often? *sigh* I've seen about 4-6 girls (from other agencies who were waiting) that I would have loved to find out more info and probably adopted.
Yeah, I'm at that "feeling sorry for Carla" stage again. I'm sure in a week or so, it will pass.
No one knows for certain what will happen, but one rumor is that people logged in for more than 6 months may not choose a child off the WC list and change to the SN program. Well, crap. 6 months for us is March 2007. Our agency, during that time frame, *might* have had 2 lists come out. THAT'S not a lot to choose from. Ya know? Especially with the wait for NSN is probably going to be close to 30 months for me. Just doesn't seem right.
Now, I can see where they might say "6 months from LID" if they have the new program in place and this is for May 1st people. Or 6 months from whenever the new "online" list is available. But until then? what about those of us who do not get access to a list very often? *sigh* I've seen about 4-6 girls (from other agencies who were waiting) that I would have loved to find out more info and probably adopted.
Yeah, I'm at that "feeling sorry for Carla" stage again. I'm sure in a week or so, it will pass.
Friday, January 12, 2007
Confessions of a Procrastinator
I had so many things I wanted to accomplish this week. I didn't get hardly any of them done. I don't really know why, except that I procrastinated right through the week. I have a doctor's letter that needs to be county certified (yes that paperchase NEVER ends). It's an update to our homestudy, and since we need to update the homestudy..well...there we go.
The boys started Karate, and LOVE it. I mean LOOOOOOOVE it. It's quite satisfying to sit and watch your child be 100% focused and succeed (well okay it's not quite the smooth motions yet) at something. Then have them get in the car and tell you very sincerely "Thanks Mom! I LOVE Karate!" Even S, who is 4, is loving it. His class though is quite fun to watch. It's more of a "learning the basic motions and we all know they'll be white belts for at least a year" kind of class. LOL Sensei has tons of patience though, and he's wonderful with the kids. That took up 3 afternoons.
JM had speech therapy and orthodontist appointments this week. Plus a class at the Science museum. Not to mention our van needed a tune-up. Plus Wednesday night church activities, and well, you can see that my week through Wed really had NO chance to do anything at home. Especially as a I had an client scheduled Monday night.
So, here it is Friday. I have laundry that needs doing. Beds need changed. Dinner needs cooked. I have an office that needs de-cluttered. My kitchen table and bar are "hot spots" and need cleaned off. Then, the kids rooms, oh my they are a wreck. However, Karate "rules" are that they are supposed to keep rooms cleaned. :) That should help out today. If they don't, then 10 Bunny Hops are in their futures!
Off I go now, to stop procrastinating and start cleaning. Yeah. that's what I'm going to do.
The boys started Karate, and LOVE it. I mean LOOOOOOOVE it. It's quite satisfying to sit and watch your child be 100% focused and succeed (well okay it's not quite the smooth motions yet) at something. Then have them get in the car and tell you very sincerely "Thanks Mom! I LOVE Karate!" Even S, who is 4, is loving it. His class though is quite fun to watch. It's more of a "learning the basic motions and we all know they'll be white belts for at least a year" kind of class. LOL Sensei has tons of patience though, and he's wonderful with the kids. That took up 3 afternoons.
JM had speech therapy and orthodontist appointments this week. Plus a class at the Science museum. Not to mention our van needed a tune-up. Plus Wednesday night church activities, and well, you can see that my week through Wed really had NO chance to do anything at home. Especially as a I had an client scheduled Monday night.
So, here it is Friday. I have laundry that needs doing. Beds need changed. Dinner needs cooked. I have an office that needs de-cluttered. My kitchen table and bar are "hot spots" and need cleaned off. Then, the kids rooms, oh my they are a wreck. However, Karate "rules" are that they are supposed to keep rooms cleaned. :) That should help out today. If they don't, then 10 Bunny Hops are in their futures!
Off I go now, to stop procrastinating and start cleaning. Yeah. that's what I'm going to do.
Thursday, January 04, 2007
My Wish for all my Online Friends
May peace break into your house and may thieves come to steal your debts. May the pockets of your jeans become a magnet for $200 bills. May love stick to your face like Vaseline and may laughter assault your lips! May your clothes smell of success like smoking tires. May happiness slap you across the face and may your tears be that of joy. May the problems you had forget your home address. And may 2007 be the best year of your life!
Tuesday, January 02, 2007
2006 Meme...
I've been tagged by at least 3 friends on my other blogs (and NO ya'll aren't getting those addresses...those are all password protected private ones on other places). Saw this on Wicked Witch's site (okay, gotta admit that I SMILE huge when I see that name pop up).
1. What did you do in 2006 that you’d never done before?
I was fingerprinted. Left Samuel overnight with my Mom.
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
Yes, for the most part. Yes we will make more - but they're realistic ones.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
My sis (I have another nephew) and my friend Beth.
4. Did anyone close to you die?
No.
5. What countries did you visit?
Just the USofA
6. What would you like to have in 2007 that you lacked in 2006?
Katie to join our family.
7. What dates from 2006 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
August 18, 2006 - DTC, then September 14, 2006 - LID. I have others, but not as big as those.
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
it could be getting Samuel pottytrained, but isn't that HIS accomplishment?
9. What was your biggest failure?
Not being patient during the wait for DTC.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Does Strep 2 times in 1 month count?
11. What was the best thing you bought?
Vacation tickets. :)
12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
The kids. They are maturing quite a bit and it warms my heart.
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
The kids. Some days it doesn't seem like they will ever learn common manners.
14. Where did most of your money go?
Bills like most people, we're still climbing out of debt, and Disney.
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Going to Disney with just Dh. :) The adoption of course.
16. What song will always remind you of 2006?
When Love Takes You In
17. Compared to this time last year, are you: a) happier or sadder? b) thinner or fatter? c) richer or poorer?
I guess happier, about the same weight (could have gained a pound), and definitely richer (in both materially things and friendships)
18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
walked, ridden my bike, spent more time outdoors with the kdis
19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
sitting in front of the computer (and what am I doing right now?)
20. How did you be spend the New Year night?
Went to a friends house for a little while, my headache from the morning came back, we left, got home at 10pm, put the kids in bed and watched How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (she was just evil!)
21. Did you fall in love in 2006?
Just deeper in love with Dh and the kids.
22. How many one-night stands?
bwaaaa haaaaa haaa...not a one.
23. What was your favorite TV program?
Do you REALLY want to know? Battlestar Galactica, Stargate SG1 and Atlantis, CSI anything, NCIS, The Unit, Numb3rs, and a new SciFi show...ummm...eternity...no...Eureka! oh I really like that show (even IF I can't remember it's name)
24. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
Don't hate anyone, but some people do make me want to scream sometimes. ;)
25. What was the best book you read?
Since I doubt you want to hear about the gushy fluffy historical romance novels, I'll put Paper Daughter by M. Elaine Mar. It was very very interesting.
26. What was the best movie you saw?
Cars
27. What was the most beautiful day you spent during the year?
Have to be being in Disney with Dh....alone...no kids.
28. Your best Christmas present?
ummm...not really sure.
29. Your wish for everyone for the new year?
That all your dreams come true! (oh yeah, I've been spending too much time planning our Disney vacation with the kids)
Gotta share: As I've been typing this up, I've had JM working on school work (it finally clicked what alphabetical order means) and Samuel has been playing with his Word Whammer and is practicing the Alphabet song. He's just about gotten it! :) so sweet to hear his little voice singing ABCD...EFG...
1. What did you do in 2006 that you’d never done before?
I was fingerprinted. Left Samuel overnight with my Mom.
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
Yes, for the most part. Yes we will make more - but they're realistic ones.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
My sis (I have another nephew) and my friend Beth.
4. Did anyone close to you die?
No.
5. What countries did you visit?
Just the USofA
6. What would you like to have in 2007 that you lacked in 2006?
Katie to join our family.
7. What dates from 2006 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
August 18, 2006 - DTC, then September 14, 2006 - LID. I have others, but not as big as those.
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
it could be getting Samuel pottytrained, but isn't that HIS accomplishment?
9. What was your biggest failure?
Not being patient during the wait for DTC.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Does Strep 2 times in 1 month count?
11. What was the best thing you bought?
Vacation tickets. :)
12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
The kids. They are maturing quite a bit and it warms my heart.
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
The kids. Some days it doesn't seem like they will ever learn common manners.
14. Where did most of your money go?
Bills like most people, we're still climbing out of debt, and Disney.
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Going to Disney with just Dh. :) The adoption of course.
16. What song will always remind you of 2006?
When Love Takes You In
17. Compared to this time last year, are you: a) happier or sadder? b) thinner or fatter? c) richer or poorer?
I guess happier, about the same weight (could have gained a pound), and definitely richer (in both materially things and friendships)
18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
walked, ridden my bike, spent more time outdoors with the kdis
19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
sitting in front of the computer (and what am I doing right now?)
20. How did you be spend the New Year night?
Went to a friends house for a little while, my headache from the morning came back, we left, got home at 10pm, put the kids in bed and watched How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (she was just evil!)
21. Did you fall in love in 2006?
Just deeper in love with Dh and the kids.
22. How many one-night stands?
bwaaaa haaaaa haaa...not a one.
23. What was your favorite TV program?
Do you REALLY want to know? Battlestar Galactica, Stargate SG1 and Atlantis, CSI anything, NCIS, The Unit, Numb3rs, and a new SciFi show...ummm...eternity...no...Eureka! oh I really like that show (even IF I can't remember it's name)
24. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
Don't hate anyone, but some people do make me want to scream sometimes. ;)
25. What was the best book you read?
Since I doubt you want to hear about the gushy fluffy historical romance novels, I'll put Paper Daughter by M. Elaine Mar. It was very very interesting.
26. What was the best movie you saw?
Cars
27. What was the most beautiful day you spent during the year?
Have to be being in Disney with Dh....alone...no kids.
28. Your best Christmas present?
ummm...not really sure.
29. Your wish for everyone for the new year?
That all your dreams come true! (oh yeah, I've been spending too much time planning our Disney vacation with the kids)
Gotta share: As I've been typing this up, I've had JM working on school work (it finally clicked what alphabetical order means) and Samuel has been playing with his Word Whammer and is practicing the Alphabet song. He's just about gotten it! :) so sweet to hear his little voice singing ABCD...EFG...
Monday, January 01, 2007
What to do this year?!
Reading of Rumor Queen website about referrals and how much longer to wait. So, IF they make it to 9/29/2005 this time, then I will have
1 day to get to October
31 days in October
30 days in November
31 days in Dec
31 days in Jan
28 days in Feb
31 days in Mar
30 days in Apr
31 days in May
30 days in June
31 days in July
31 days in August
14 days to my LID
that's...umm...350 days until my referral. Using RQ's math, that leaves us roughly 26 MORE months to wait. *where's the fainting from shock smilie when you need it?*
So, what to do? We've already gotten the bunk beds for the boys and combined them in the same room. LOL 2 years before we MUST have them there. Heck, in 2 years we could be living in a new house. But since that requires homestudy updates, I highly doubt it. However, our house WILL be "remodeled" somewhat.
I'm planning on remodelling the kitchen this year. Along with the bathrooms (if you do cabinets in one, may as well do all of it together).
Then, there is the "replace flooring upstairs" issue. I mean, between the kids and the cat it's quite dirty. It is this lovely "light cream" color, it was NOT scotchguarded, it's the cheap builders special, and well...mix all of that with my clumsiness in carrying drinks, or Dh's clumsiness in carrying snacks...and those "drippy" no spill sippy cups. *sigh* It needs to be replaced.
If that doesn't take up all our time, I can do the dreaded landscaping (with my brown thumb it will be on-going). I wonder if the "greeness" of your thumb is related to your fertility? LOL I've managed to kill a tree, 3 azalea bushes, and a hydrangea bush just in 1 year. We planted another tree last year as well (as soon as we realized I'd killed the first one) and we are anxiously awaiting spring to see if it too died. I suspect it might have. The lilac bush I planted, well, it had black spots on it most of the year. I looked it up, it's not susceptible to black spot.
Now the climbing rose bush I do not like, that I've purposefully tried to kill, pull out, etc. is doing wonderfully. Reminds me of the science fair experiment we tried. I thought I had it all figured out. Purchase 2 plants (I bougth Gerbera Daisies), leave one alone, the other pull EVERY leaf off except for 1. Water normally for 2 weeks. Observe what happens. Our hypothesis was "the plant with only 1 leaf will die." I mean for a Kindergartener and his Mom that seemed logical. Right? WRONG! The "full of leaves" plant died while the one with only 1 leaf thrived. I am still not sure that was supposed to happen!
We're also trying to grow lima beans. 2nd grade science is a bit more complicated. We're now on our 2nd set. At least I don't take the blame for this one. Dh is in charge. *snicker* He had to buy the plants for the "hide one under a cardboard box and observe" experiment. He bought cacti. LOL It didn't do anything. So, we tried it again with pansies. JM got the correct answer for that experiment. LOL I just wish we could grow those lima beans!
I think I might move Samuel back to his old room. I mean, why not? Hey, it might even speed up a SN referral. LOL He and JM want to play too much at night right now. Plus, JM might enjoy being able to sleep on the bottom bunk. Or I could turn that room into an office. That'd REALLY speed up that SN referral (or the CCAA) wouldn't it?
So, what are YOUR plans for this year?
1 day to get to October
31 days in October
30 days in November
31 days in Dec
31 days in Jan
28 days in Feb
31 days in Mar
30 days in Apr
31 days in May
30 days in June
31 days in July
31 days in August
14 days to my LID
that's...umm...350 days until my referral. Using RQ's math, that leaves us roughly 26 MORE months to wait. *where's the fainting from shock smilie when you need it?*
So, what to do? We've already gotten the bunk beds for the boys and combined them in the same room. LOL 2 years before we MUST have them there. Heck, in 2 years we could be living in a new house. But since that requires homestudy updates, I highly doubt it. However, our house WILL be "remodeled" somewhat.
I'm planning on remodelling the kitchen this year. Along with the bathrooms (if you do cabinets in one, may as well do all of it together).
Then, there is the "replace flooring upstairs" issue. I mean, between the kids and the cat it's quite dirty. It is this lovely "light cream" color, it was NOT scotchguarded, it's the cheap builders special, and well...mix all of that with my clumsiness in carrying drinks, or Dh's clumsiness in carrying snacks...and those "drippy" no spill sippy cups. *sigh* It needs to be replaced.
If that doesn't take up all our time, I can do the dreaded landscaping (with my brown thumb it will be on-going). I wonder if the "greeness" of your thumb is related to your fertility? LOL I've managed to kill a tree, 3 azalea bushes, and a hydrangea bush just in 1 year. We planted another tree last year as well (as soon as we realized I'd killed the first one) and we are anxiously awaiting spring to see if it too died. I suspect it might have. The lilac bush I planted, well, it had black spots on it most of the year. I looked it up, it's not susceptible to black spot.
Now the climbing rose bush I do not like, that I've purposefully tried to kill, pull out, etc. is doing wonderfully. Reminds me of the science fair experiment we tried. I thought I had it all figured out. Purchase 2 plants (I bougth Gerbera Daisies), leave one alone, the other pull EVERY leaf off except for 1. Water normally for 2 weeks. Observe what happens. Our hypothesis was "the plant with only 1 leaf will die." I mean for a Kindergartener and his Mom that seemed logical. Right? WRONG! The "full of leaves" plant died while the one with only 1 leaf thrived. I am still not sure that was supposed to happen!
We're also trying to grow lima beans. 2nd grade science is a bit more complicated. We're now on our 2nd set. At least I don't take the blame for this one. Dh is in charge. *snicker* He had to buy the plants for the "hide one under a cardboard box and observe" experiment. He bought cacti. LOL It didn't do anything. So, we tried it again with pansies. JM got the correct answer for that experiment. LOL I just wish we could grow those lima beans!
I think I might move Samuel back to his old room. I mean, why not? Hey, it might even speed up a SN referral. LOL He and JM want to play too much at night right now. Plus, JM might enjoy being able to sleep on the bottom bunk. Or I could turn that room into an office. That'd REALLY speed up that SN referral (or the CCAA) wouldn't it?
So, what are YOUR plans for this year?
Sunday, December 31, 2006
Lama Barn Goings
If that means anything at all to you (and you would know almost instantly what I am talking about if it did), then please leave a comment...I need to find out if what I have is correct.
Does it lead to sandbagging?
If so, then HELP with sandbagging! LOL
If you are 100% completely clueless, then I'll need to post something soon on this. It's been great at keeping me busy so I do not think about how slowly the world of International Adoption is moving. :)
Does it lead to sandbagging?
If so, then HELP with sandbagging! LOL
If you are 100% completely clueless, then I'll need to post something soon on this. It's been great at keeping me busy so I do not think about how slowly the world of International Adoption is moving. :)
Saturday, December 30, 2006
What an amazing year!
It has truly been an amazing year for us. 1 year ago I was anxiously awaiting approval from our agency to start the process of adoption. We needed one doctor's letter verifying the information we had given them before they would approve us. Samuel wasn't potty trained. We had only been in the house for 1 year with lots of projects still undone. LOL we still have those projects undone! It's amazing what all can happen in one year.
Most of all, I'm thrilled that I started blogging. That I have found so many people online who share my passion for adoption and adoption from China (I have a quote about that passion versus obsession but I'd have to go look it up and I'm way too lazy tonight to do that). On my list of things to do is to update my blog with all the blogs that I read. :) I also want to update the look of things, change the theme out (and I need to talk to someone about that).
On the subject of to do lists, does anyone else have one that seems to only GROW in length? Mine never seems to shrink. I keep adding more than I mark off. One thing that I will be marking off soon is New Year's Resolutions. We always make them, and some we actually keep. "Get out of Debt." Is NOT one, rather it's more like "Pay $xx to debt to reduce it." Why this way? It's an attainable goal, and "out of debt" includes the house in our books. This year though, I think I'm going to put in a resolution of "eat out only X times per week...or month" Then another will be something like "exercise Y times per day...week...month...year" LOL Dh wants to lose weight, and I think I will resolve to help out in anyway I can (which means no more chocolate binges during that week of every month IYKWIM).
As soon as I get business stuff taken care of (end of year stuff), and as soon as we get our 2007 budget squared away (ooooh boy that sounds fun doesn't it?), I'm going to post some photos - Then/Now for the Friday Foto challenge, and "year in review" type of thing. It always amazes me how much the kids grow each year, how much older they look in December than they did in Jan. Where is that pause button for Life?
Most of all, I'm thrilled that I started blogging. That I have found so many people online who share my passion for adoption and adoption from China (I have a quote about that passion versus obsession but I'd have to go look it up and I'm way too lazy tonight to do that). On my list of things to do is to update my blog with all the blogs that I read. :) I also want to update the look of things, change the theme out (and I need to talk to someone about that).
On the subject of to do lists, does anyone else have one that seems to only GROW in length? Mine never seems to shrink. I keep adding more than I mark off. One thing that I will be marking off soon is New Year's Resolutions. We always make them, and some we actually keep. "Get out of Debt." Is NOT one, rather it's more like "Pay $xx to debt to reduce it." Why this way? It's an attainable goal, and "out of debt" includes the house in our books. This year though, I think I'm going to put in a resolution of "eat out only X times per week...or month" Then another will be something like "exercise Y times per day...week...month...year" LOL Dh wants to lose weight, and I think I will resolve to help out in anyway I can (which means no more chocolate binges during that week of every month IYKWIM).
As soon as I get business stuff taken care of (end of year stuff), and as soon as we get our 2007 budget squared away (ooooh boy that sounds fun doesn't it?), I'm going to post some photos - Then/Now for the Friday Foto challenge, and "year in review" type of thing. It always amazes me how much the kids grow each year, how much older they look in December than they did in Jan. Where is that pause button for Life?
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
Why is it?
Why is it that I can think of wonderfully witty blog posts in the van, but when I sit down to blog them I have forgotten them? Why is that?! Oh, it's probably "Mommy brain" you know that phenomenon that occurs when you become a Mom. You suddenly have so much on your mind (like did you match up the number and dollar amount of stocking stuffer for both boys or did you make a boo-boo and they are unequal...because you KNOW that 8 year old will figure it out) and since you have such innane things on your mind you can no longer remember important adult like things...such as what you were going to post on your blog.
Blech.
Was it about the Christmas songs you were listening to?
Was it about the super cool anniversary trip you just took?
Was it about the stupid drivers on the road who are rushing around for last minute shopping and driving you crazy?
Was it some silly quip the 4 year old made?
Who really knows at this point. LOL
OH YEAH!!!! I remember now!!!! It was about our trip. *giggle*
Dh and I were in EPCOT, and visited this Coca-Cola place where they have flavors of Coke from around the world. One flavor was from China, and I found it quite yummy. It was a very sweet watermelon type flavor. Being the sweet, loving, adoring wife I am, I got a sample of the China one for Dh and then proceeded to get him a sample of Italy's "The Beverly." Now, admittedly, there are descriptions above each flavor, and "Beverly" said something to the effect of "bitter tasting drink that is supposed to stimulate the appetite." I had heard on the Disboards that it was foul. I too had a sample of "The Beverly" and I took a sip. Being someone who never drinks, I am assumming that this cola is similar in flavor to some nasty alcoholic beverage, and I thought it tasted remarkably like pure soda water...you know the nasty stuff that comes out in the drink fountain with the syrup for Dr. Pepper is gone? So, here I am with a sip of this foul concoction in my mouth and I notice Dh take a BIG OL GULP of the stuff. I, of course, started to giggle. BAD idea with a sip of nasty foul tasting soda in your mouth. Not wanting to spew it out everywhere I try to swallow. Dh, has of course swallowed his huge gulp and I heard, "It's not....OH MY WORD the aftertaste." Oh...I could feel it....the burning on my tongue, and I knew it would really really hurt to come out of the nose. I had to turn around and swallow quickly because just thinking of Dh's reaction and looking at his face had me rolling with laughter. I got my teeny tiny sip down. I gulped down the wonderfully sweet China cola, and that aftertaste...oh that aftertaste was STILL there. Dh and I were laughing like crazy (he didn't finish his Beverly and I tossed the rest out). The rest of the colas were decent. The ginger one was not too bad. I don't remember the others that much.
So, there's my advice...don't drink "Beverly" at EPCOT! LOL
Oh, and when you leave, be sure to pay attention to all the people who give you weird looks for laughing so hard with your beloved. :)
2nd tip of the day...baby wipes in the toilet are NOT a good thing.
Blech.
Was it about the Christmas songs you were listening to?
Was it about the super cool anniversary trip you just took?
Was it about the stupid drivers on the road who are rushing around for last minute shopping and driving you crazy?
Was it some silly quip the 4 year old made?
Who really knows at this point. LOL
OH YEAH!!!! I remember now!!!! It was about our trip. *giggle*
Dh and I were in EPCOT, and visited this Coca-Cola place where they have flavors of Coke from around the world. One flavor was from China, and I found it quite yummy. It was a very sweet watermelon type flavor. Being the sweet, loving, adoring wife I am, I got a sample of the China one for Dh and then proceeded to get him a sample of Italy's "The Beverly." Now, admittedly, there are descriptions above each flavor, and "Beverly" said something to the effect of "bitter tasting drink that is supposed to stimulate the appetite." I had heard on the Disboards that it was foul. I too had a sample of "The Beverly" and I took a sip. Being someone who never drinks, I am assumming that this cola is similar in flavor to some nasty alcoholic beverage, and I thought it tasted remarkably like pure soda water...you know the nasty stuff that comes out in the drink fountain with the syrup for Dr. Pepper is gone? So, here I am with a sip of this foul concoction in my mouth and I notice Dh take a BIG OL GULP of the stuff. I, of course, started to giggle. BAD idea with a sip of nasty foul tasting soda in your mouth. Not wanting to spew it out everywhere I try to swallow. Dh, has of course swallowed his huge gulp and I heard, "It's not....OH MY WORD the aftertaste." Oh...I could feel it....the burning on my tongue, and I knew it would really really hurt to come out of the nose. I had to turn around and swallow quickly because just thinking of Dh's reaction and looking at his face had me rolling with laughter. I got my teeny tiny sip down. I gulped down the wonderfully sweet China cola, and that aftertaste...oh that aftertaste was STILL there. Dh and I were laughing like crazy (he didn't finish his Beverly and I tossed the rest out). The rest of the colas were decent. The ginger one was not too bad. I don't remember the others that much.
So, there's my advice...don't drink "Beverly" at EPCOT! LOL
Oh, and when you leave, be sure to pay attention to all the people who give you weird looks for laughing so hard with your beloved. :)
2nd tip of the day...baby wipes in the toilet are NOT a good thing.
Monday, December 18, 2006
What do you mean there is NOTHING Mulan in Disney?
Dh and I just got back from a wonderful 3 day anniversary celebration trip to Disney World. :) We honeymooned there, so for 10 Wonderful Years together, we went back...without KIDS!
I figured, okay, I've struck out EVERYWHERE finding a Baby Mulan doll for Katie. I figured I could find at least something Mulan for Katie in Disney World. I was WRONG. Nothing. Nada. Zilch. No Mulan stuff? I couldn't believe it!! Sure I could have gotten a photo taken with her at the China pavilion, but to NOT have anything to purchase with Mulan on it? I was shocked. Not to mention dismayed. If you find anything Mulan, please please please let me know. Well, nothing too expensive!
Being a Mom, you learn about puke. LOL I've learned that I can't stand it. One thing you learn in Disney is that puke is sometimes unavoidable...kids, lots of "rich" foods, rides, and then sweets is a BAD combination. Here were some of the phrases we heard:
Waiting to ride Dumbo (yes Dh and I rode Dumbo...at night, in the rain):
"Just a couple of minutes! One is extra wet and one is not so pretty." It was raining, so I guess the "extra wet" one was peed in, and the "not so pretty" one was puked in. LOL We stayed away from those and managed to get in an elephant that didn't go up and down. Not a problem though as I didn't care about that part.
Going on the "Green" side of Mission Space (you know the not so intense version):
"We're experiencing technical difficulties in the more intense version so we're letting the "Orange" riders use the "green" side with spinning turned on. It should only be a few more minutes before the technical difficulties are cleared up."
Then walking down the street I hear one cast member say to another:
"We have a protein spill just outside of Buzz Lightyear. Who is on that duty today?"
Then...I heard from an older-than-little-kid size person (could not figure out if she was 12, 18, 20, or 25)..."I don't feel so good." Yes, I quickly WALKED away.
Overall, we were lucky as we were not around as many "sick" sounding people as we typically are during our September trips. See, I'm the lucky one who ALWAYS (and I mean always) sees, hears, or just about steps in puke on our trips. Never fails...the kids sitting next to me at Beauty and Beast lean over and puke between the bleachers. The kids sitting down from us at Spectromagic pukes all over the sidewalk. The people sleeping 5 doors down from us in the hotel have balled up bedding outside their room...with suspicous looking stains. Ah yes...just LOVELY memories. LOL This trip I only had people around me complaining LOUDLY of sore throats, or they were coughing, or they were sneezing. So many kids sounding like they had bronchitis. So many feverish looking tweens. Airborne was taken daily. Dh did come home with a cold.
I'll have to share photos and share more stories of our trip. My feet are aching, more so than normal. I wore Crocs for 1.5 days, and my arches were not happy. They are GREAT for rainstorms (yes we had that). I feel like I pulled some muscles around my ankles and outside of my feet. Walking was interesting, but it is amazing what you can "push through" when you are having fun with your dh. :)
Missed the kids, of course. They didn't really miss us. Grandma is GREAT! She kept them busy busy busy. Now we can not wait to take the kids back to Disney (trip coming up this year).
Here's one photo - from the day after we heard "One isn't so pretty" in riding Dumbo.
*removed because it's been long enough*
LOL...oh the new point and shoot focused on DUMBO not on us. :) *giggle* I have back focus problems with the big camera, and notice focus issues. Ignore the focus issue here, just enjoy the snapshot of us on our anniversary trip. :)
I figured, okay, I've struck out EVERYWHERE finding a Baby Mulan doll for Katie. I figured I could find at least something Mulan for Katie in Disney World. I was WRONG. Nothing. Nada. Zilch. No Mulan stuff? I couldn't believe it!! Sure I could have gotten a photo taken with her at the China pavilion, but to NOT have anything to purchase with Mulan on it? I was shocked. Not to mention dismayed. If you find anything Mulan, please please please let me know. Well, nothing too expensive!
Being a Mom, you learn about puke. LOL I've learned that I can't stand it. One thing you learn in Disney is that puke is sometimes unavoidable...kids, lots of "rich" foods, rides, and then sweets is a BAD combination. Here were some of the phrases we heard:
Waiting to ride Dumbo (yes Dh and I rode Dumbo...at night, in the rain):
"Just a couple of minutes! One is extra wet and one is not so pretty." It was raining, so I guess the "extra wet" one was peed in, and the "not so pretty" one was puked in. LOL We stayed away from those and managed to get in an elephant that didn't go up and down. Not a problem though as I didn't care about that part.
Going on the "Green" side of Mission Space (you know the not so intense version):
"We're experiencing technical difficulties in the more intense version so we're letting the "Orange" riders use the "green" side with spinning turned on. It should only be a few more minutes before the technical difficulties are cleared up."
Then walking down the street I hear one cast member say to another:
"We have a protein spill just outside of Buzz Lightyear. Who is on that duty today?"
Then...I heard from an older-than-little-kid size person (could not figure out if she was 12, 18, 20, or 25)..."I don't feel so good." Yes, I quickly WALKED away.
Overall, we were lucky as we were not around as many "sick" sounding people as we typically are during our September trips. See, I'm the lucky one who ALWAYS (and I mean always) sees, hears, or just about steps in puke on our trips. Never fails...the kids sitting next to me at Beauty and Beast lean over and puke between the bleachers. The kids sitting down from us at Spectromagic pukes all over the sidewalk. The people sleeping 5 doors down from us in the hotel have balled up bedding outside their room...with suspicous looking stains. Ah yes...just LOVELY memories. LOL This trip I only had people around me complaining LOUDLY of sore throats, or they were coughing, or they were sneezing. So many kids sounding like they had bronchitis. So many feverish looking tweens. Airborne was taken daily. Dh did come home with a cold.
I'll have to share photos and share more stories of our trip. My feet are aching, more so than normal. I wore Crocs for 1.5 days, and my arches were not happy. They are GREAT for rainstorms (yes we had that). I feel like I pulled some muscles around my ankles and outside of my feet. Walking was interesting, but it is amazing what you can "push through" when you are having fun with your dh. :)
Missed the kids, of course. They didn't really miss us. Grandma is GREAT! She kept them busy busy busy. Now we can not wait to take the kids back to Disney (trip coming up this year).
Here's one photo - from the day after we heard "One isn't so pretty" in riding Dumbo.
*removed because it's been long enough*
LOL...oh the new point and shoot focused on DUMBO not on us. :) *giggle* I have back focus problems with the big camera, and notice focus issues. Ignore the focus issue here, just enjoy the snapshot of us on our anniversary trip. :)
Tuesday, December 12, 2006
Not this time.
That's my update.
Actually, my agency received 29 referalls, 12 of which were girls and VERY few of those were in our requested age. We are really wanting to preserve birth order and after 2 boys I am wanting a girl! I need some more girly things in this house. I mean, even the cat is male (well neutered but male). LOL
I was amazingly okay with not getting a referral. I did not really expect it, I had hoped. I told some friends it was much like getting that negative HPT after TTC for 3 months. You really hoped for it to be positive, but when it wasn't you didn't fall into a deep dark place. Now, a year from now if we are STILL waiting and I don't get a referral? I just might fall into that deep dark place. However, and this is a BIG one, I know I can survive. I know I will have a child at the end (well I hope so anyway). It's all about trusting in Him and His timing. My daughter is coming to me, everything about this adoption would NOT have happened the way it has unless He had a plan and He had a daughter picked out for us.
Then, it's almost Christmas! (heck of a topic change huh?) I can not believe another year has passed. I can not believe that it's almost Christmas. It's been quite hectic this year, and luckily we're done shopping. Now, it's time to focus on us...on our family...on celebrations. One thing we're doing this year is the Jesse Advent Tree, and it's been truly awesome. That's the first link that popped up from Google. :)
Now that my Christmas Rush season is just about done (last day for orders was today), I'm hoping that my house can regain some semblance of order soon. I am also hoping to be able to start on getting the kids rooms situated, pics posted, etc. The boys are enjoying the bunk beds. All of Samuel's toys are the "boys" room. I am *almost* ready to start on Katie's room. It's going to be SLOW going until we get a referral. Of course, I've fallen in love with some bedding, and I hope to catch it on sale soon. It's Cherry Blossoms from Pottery Barn Kids.
There I am. No referral. Christmas is almost here and I'm giddy about it. Christmas rush is over. I have vague ideas for Katie's room. :)
Actually, my agency received 29 referalls, 12 of which were girls and VERY few of those were in our requested age. We are really wanting to preserve birth order and after 2 boys I am wanting a girl! I need some more girly things in this house. I mean, even the cat is male (well neutered but male). LOL
I was amazingly okay with not getting a referral. I did not really expect it, I had hoped. I told some friends it was much like getting that negative HPT after TTC for 3 months. You really hoped for it to be positive, but when it wasn't you didn't fall into a deep dark place. Now, a year from now if we are STILL waiting and I don't get a referral? I just might fall into that deep dark place. However, and this is a BIG one, I know I can survive. I know I will have a child at the end (well I hope so anyway). It's all about trusting in Him and His timing. My daughter is coming to me, everything about this adoption would NOT have happened the way it has unless He had a plan and He had a daughter picked out for us.
Then, it's almost Christmas! (heck of a topic change huh?) I can not believe another year has passed. I can not believe that it's almost Christmas. It's been quite hectic this year, and luckily we're done shopping. Now, it's time to focus on us...on our family...on celebrations. One thing we're doing this year is the Jesse Advent Tree, and it's been truly awesome. That's the first link that popped up from Google. :)
Now that my Christmas Rush season is just about done (last day for orders was today), I'm hoping that my house can regain some semblance of order soon. I am also hoping to be able to start on getting the kids rooms situated, pics posted, etc. The boys are enjoying the bunk beds. All of Samuel's toys are the "boys" room. I am *almost* ready to start on Katie's room. It's going to be SLOW going until we get a referral. Of course, I've fallen in love with some bedding, and I hope to catch it on sale soon. It's Cherry Blossoms from Pottery Barn Kids.
There I am. No referral. Christmas is almost here and I'm giddy about it. Christmas rush is over. I have vague ideas for Katie's room. :)
Tuesday, December 05, 2006
I have an 8 year old now.
Wow. I can not believe that my oldest is 8 now. Seems just like yesterday I was bringing him home from the hospital. He truly is a joy and so smart! Well, we think he's just the smartest. We have been discussing birthday parties and expenses. We offerred to send him to Parent/Child weekend at Space Camp or another similarly priced type of Camp (or multiple camps) in exchange for doing a big birthday party. He agreed. It was a bit rough leading up to his birthday, but he seemed okay with it.
We were going to make his actual birthday all about John Mark. Anything would go, he got his way. 2 things happened though. I ended up watching my friend's twins. She's very close to delivering her 3rd baby, and with the twins in daycare and she thought she would be having a late appointment at th doctor's yesterday. It was fun. 2nd thing, now that we are "twin free" I think I am getting sick and so is Samuel. Strep again if I can diagnose myself correctly. I mean, I just had strep last month! ugh
Other than that, we're just waiting to see if the Special Needs list contains our little Katie or not!
We were going to make his actual birthday all about John Mark. Anything would go, he got his way. 2 things happened though. I ended up watching my friend's twins. She's very close to delivering her 3rd baby, and with the twins in daycare and she thought she would be having a late appointment at th doctor's yesterday. It was fun. 2nd thing, now that we are "twin free" I think I am getting sick and so is Samuel. Strep again if I can diagnose myself correctly. I mean, I just had strep last month! ugh
Other than that, we're just waiting to see if the Special Needs list contains our little Katie or not!
Thursday, November 30, 2006
Check out this monitor
Okay, might need to scroll over to actually see the article...8 LCDs in One
I want this monitor! LOL I doubt I could make this a "need" at this time, but hey, I can dream.
8 LCS in One
Referrals through Sept 8 are coming! Which means our "LID date" for a referral is what...ummm...365+6 = 371 days away. Coming down, slowly, but coming down!!! However, we're pretty sure we'll get a question in Review so we all know that this will actually make our LID pretty much useless. *sigh* According to Dh's spreadsheet (which he's running based off of all the places LIDs are listed), we have a chance of getting our NSN referral in Feb 2008.
I want this monitor! LOL I doubt I could make this a "need" at this time, but hey, I can dream.
8 LCS in One
Referrals through Sept 8 are coming! Which means our "LID date" for a referral is what...ummm...365+6 = 371 days away. Coming down, slowly, but coming down!!! However, we're pretty sure we'll get a question in Review so we all know that this will actually make our LID pretty much useless. *sigh* According to Dh's spreadsheet (which he's running based off of all the places LIDs are listed), we have a chance of getting our NSN referral in Feb 2008.
Wednesday, November 29, 2006
Just a few from our Thanksgiving
We went to Dollywood on Saturday for an enjoyable time with my Mom, brother and his girlfriend. It was rather pleasant until the sun went down, then it got a wee bit COLD for my taste. Those of you that live out of the Southeast US don't laugh at me, but I was freezing. Yes, it was a mighty cold 50ish degrees outside. LOL
I got my hair straightened a couple of weeks ago, and had not gotten a picture for my friends. Here's me with Samuel (notice the STRAIGHT hair)! This is a huge deal for me as I've lived with this extremely curly hair for my entire life. I told Dh that I was turning into a high maintenance gal this year. Who knows, I might even *gasp* start wearing makeup!
Samuel, at his shrimpy size, is still not tall enough to ride rollercoasters. However, JM is. He's my thrill ride junkie. When we go to Disney, he begs to ride Mission Space over and over and over and over again. He managed 7 times in one trip once. We were considering paying people to sit next to him. So, here is his reaction to Thunderhead, a wooden rollercoaster at Dollywood. He's ridden it a few times, but this time he and Dh rode it in the front seat. I think he liked it.
I have a "tree" image as well for the Friday Fun Foto challenge it's not MY tree, but one at Dollywood. Anyway, it's a huge tree in the middle of Dollywood (real tree) that they wrapped every branch with blue lights. Pretty darn cool in person. Not so cool in a photo where you don't really see it. My excuse? I only took the point and shoot. If I'd have had the "big" camera, I could have exposed it properly, done my magic on it and voila a wonderful image of this awesome tree. So, sorry, you just have to imagine it all beautiful!
I got my hair straightened a couple of weeks ago, and had not gotten a picture for my friends. Here's me with Samuel (notice the STRAIGHT hair)! This is a huge deal for me as I've lived with this extremely curly hair for my entire life. I told Dh that I was turning into a high maintenance gal this year. Who knows, I might even *gasp* start wearing makeup!
Samuel, at his shrimpy size, is still not tall enough to ride rollercoasters. However, JM is. He's my thrill ride junkie. When we go to Disney, he begs to ride Mission Space over and over and over and over again. He managed 7 times in one trip once. We were considering paying people to sit next to him. So, here is his reaction to Thunderhead, a wooden rollercoaster at Dollywood. He's ridden it a few times, but this time he and Dh rode it in the front seat. I think he liked it.
I have a "tree" image as well for the Friday Fun Foto challenge it's not MY tree, but one at Dollywood. Anyway, it's a huge tree in the middle of Dollywood (real tree) that they wrapped every branch with blue lights. Pretty darn cool in person. Not so cool in a photo where you don't really see it. My excuse? I only took the point and shoot. If I'd have had the "big" camera, I could have exposed it properly, done my magic on it and voila a wonderful image of this awesome tree. So, sorry, you just have to imagine it all beautiful!
Sunday, November 26, 2006
A family Thanksgiving adventure.
Having been swamped with clients the past couple of weeks (still barely keeping my head above water there), we took the boys to visit Grandma and Grandpa for Thanksgiving. Ahh, nothing like doing 5 loads of laundry Tuesday evening/night/wee early hours of Wednesday, frantically packing, then realize the van is totally and completely DISGUSTING and in need of a good cleaning, only to realize that half of the city had the same realization at the automatic car wash (hey it was like 40 degrees outside and I refuse to wash the van with the boys in THAT weather), and THEN finally getting out the door only to turn around because you forgot to put the trashbag with the rotten smelly eggs in their containers out in the trashbin. LOL
So, finally, we get to Grandmas and I sigh in happiness in NOT HAVING BROUGHT work with me! Yippee!!! 3 full days of NO work. So, I bake some desserts, read a book, and relax.
Thanksgiving morning I get up and help Mom with dinner, watch TV, get dressed, and then go with Dad to pick up my grandmother from the assisted living home. My grandmother has had 2 major strokes this year, and the doctors feel like it is only a matter of time before she has another. Anyway, Grandma is a bit feisty still, and we had a fairly good visit. I enjoyed seeing her at any rate. :) Knowing how fast life passes you by, I cherished getting to see her. Dad takes her "home" and then when he gets back Dad, Dh, and JM all go to bed around 6pm. Yes...my 8 year old voluntarily went to bed at 6pm! Guess he was tired. Dh was tired as well. Me? I read another book. LOL Well, Dh had been scouring the Black Friday ads for weeks, and had decided to brave the crowds. Imagine his surprise when Thursday afternoon he found out he could buy some things online?! It was great, and reduced his need to 1 store. Since he went to bed at 6pm, he woke up at 2:15 AM. Yes, 2:15. He was out of the door at 3AM, standing in line at 3:30-3:45AM. Me? I was happily snoozing away, nice and warm in BED! LOL Circuit City was his store of choice, and he got all he wanted (except for the free camera because of a non-moving line he got into). However, he was done around 8am. He called me, told me he was on his way back. I was preparing to leave with Mom and my sister to go to visit my other Grandmother where my cousin was having a baby shower (yes a 3 hour drive there, 2 hour baby shower, and a 3 hour drive back) so I told him I'd see him later.
20 minutes later he calls to tell me he has lost his wallet. ACK! I ask if he checked the car really well (he's done this before but the wallet was in the car). He said he had. So, I start the exhausting process of cancelling the cards. PSA only carry those cards you are going to be using! Well, after getting the 4 cards cancelled, we commisserate over the lost "free meals" on the frequent diner cards. 4 hours later...he calls again. Guess what? The wallet was under the driver's seat. *explecitive* I'm now trying to remember what was on the cards that was "auto-draft" so I can call tomorrow and get that sorted out. Only one I'm needing is the card I use for business, and that is because my main work source needs to have something ordered TONIGHT, so I'm going to call tomorrow morning and see if I can have an account opened with them for the next week so I can make my orders.
I get home finally...Dh leaves with my Dad. He forgot his cell phone at the house, and panics that he lost it. ARGH. Then Saturday morning we get up to go to Dollywood and Dh can't find his wallet again. This time he checks the car REALLY well, and it's there.
Yes, I've had loads of fun teasing him about his lost wallet. LOL
We had fun at Dollywood, it was nice.
So, finally, we get to Grandmas and I sigh in happiness in NOT HAVING BROUGHT work with me! Yippee!!! 3 full days of NO work. So, I bake some desserts, read a book, and relax.
Thanksgiving morning I get up and help Mom with dinner, watch TV, get dressed, and then go with Dad to pick up my grandmother from the assisted living home. My grandmother has had 2 major strokes this year, and the doctors feel like it is only a matter of time before she has another. Anyway, Grandma is a bit feisty still, and we had a fairly good visit. I enjoyed seeing her at any rate. :) Knowing how fast life passes you by, I cherished getting to see her. Dad takes her "home" and then when he gets back Dad, Dh, and JM all go to bed around 6pm. Yes...my 8 year old voluntarily went to bed at 6pm! Guess he was tired. Dh was tired as well. Me? I read another book. LOL Well, Dh had been scouring the Black Friday ads for weeks, and had decided to brave the crowds. Imagine his surprise when Thursday afternoon he found out he could buy some things online?! It was great, and reduced his need to 1 store. Since he went to bed at 6pm, he woke up at 2:15 AM. Yes, 2:15. He was out of the door at 3AM, standing in line at 3:30-3:45AM. Me? I was happily snoozing away, nice and warm in BED! LOL Circuit City was his store of choice, and he got all he wanted (except for the free camera because of a non-moving line he got into). However, he was done around 8am. He called me, told me he was on his way back. I was preparing to leave with Mom and my sister to go to visit my other Grandmother where my cousin was having a baby shower (yes a 3 hour drive there, 2 hour baby shower, and a 3 hour drive back) so I told him I'd see him later.
20 minutes later he calls to tell me he has lost his wallet. ACK! I ask if he checked the car really well (he's done this before but the wallet was in the car). He said he had. So, I start the exhausting process of cancelling the cards. PSA only carry those cards you are going to be using! Well, after getting the 4 cards cancelled, we commisserate over the lost "free meals" on the frequent diner cards. 4 hours later...he calls again. Guess what? The wallet was under the driver's seat. *explecitive* I'm now trying to remember what was on the cards that was "auto-draft" so I can call tomorrow and get that sorted out. Only one I'm needing is the card I use for business, and that is because my main work source needs to have something ordered TONIGHT, so I'm going to call tomorrow morning and see if I can have an account opened with them for the next week so I can make my orders.
I get home finally...Dh leaves with my Dad. He forgot his cell phone at the house, and panics that he lost it. ARGH. Then Saturday morning we get up to go to Dollywood and Dh can't find his wallet again. This time he checks the car REALLY well, and it's there.
Yes, I've had loads of fun teasing him about his lost wallet. LOL
We had fun at Dollywood, it was nice.
Tuesday, November 21, 2006
I blinked and it's Thanksgiving!
Does this ever happen to anyone else? You vividly remember taking the kids Trick or Treating, and then you blinked and it's now suddenly Thanksgiving? Where did the time go? I mean, it's good that it went by so fast and I really hope the rest of the "Big Colossal WAIT" goes this fast, but WOAH where did the time go?
I think being extremely busy is one help. I'm currently buried in client stuff with my home business. Working from home AND homeschooling requires tons of organizational skills of which I have none. So, since I know this about myself we were already over 90 days into our school year so the past 1.5 weeks have been "Thanksgiving Break" for JM. He's loved it. My house has not. Unfortunately I promised the kids that we could put up the tree before Thanksgiving...and now I'm not sure we'll get it done.
I did manage to work on our Christmas card image...all I hope is that the rest of you in blogger land had an easier time of it than I did.
I'm seriously considering that feet photo for our card.
and ON that note, I had this brilliat idea to do a "Christmas Sock Feet" photo of all of us. Target only had Christmas socks for Women and Girls. So, I bought my pair, and bought girl socks for the boys (in a more gender neutral design...you know green with Santa or blue with snowmen...not the red with girly colored ornaments). JM can read, and he saw "Girls Socks" and that was the end of that BRILLIANT idea. Humph. I can not wait for Katie to be part of this family so I can do girly things, but yes I'm prepared for even her to turn up her nose at the idea of Girly Christmas Socks.
I think being extremely busy is one help. I'm currently buried in client stuff with my home business. Working from home AND homeschooling requires tons of organizational skills of which I have none. So, since I know this about myself we were already over 90 days into our school year so the past 1.5 weeks have been "Thanksgiving Break" for JM. He's loved it. My house has not. Unfortunately I promised the kids that we could put up the tree before Thanksgiving...and now I'm not sure we'll get it done.
I did manage to work on our Christmas card image...all I hope is that the rest of you in blogger land had an easier time of it than I did.
I'm seriously considering that feet photo for our card.
and ON that note, I had this brilliat idea to do a "Christmas Sock Feet" photo of all of us. Target only had Christmas socks for Women and Girls. So, I bought my pair, and bought girl socks for the boys (in a more gender neutral design...you know green with Santa or blue with snowmen...not the red with girly colored ornaments). JM can read, and he saw "Girls Socks" and that was the end of that BRILLIANT idea. Humph. I can not wait for Katie to be part of this family so I can do girly things, but yes I'm prepared for even her to turn up her nose at the idea of Girly Christmas Socks.
Saturday, November 18, 2006
Tuesday, November 14, 2006
Katie's future room
oh my is it fun to look for bedding and decorations for Katie's room. My biggest problem is that I find I like it all. I'm at a total loss as to what I want to do. I fell in love with this Pottery Barn set, and was quietly saving up money for it. However, when we moved the boys into 1 room, we had to decide which bed set to keep for Katie's room (on the floor without a frame). The twin bed or the full bed? The full bed means family visiting will actually have a place to sleep. The twin bed means Katie has more room to move around and play. The full bed means that she can sleep on the bed with me or Dh when we get home. The twin bed means her crib will actually fit in the room. LOL Then there is the whole question of if we move and Katie is in her own room, what size bedding will she need then. I need to figure out which size bed she will HAVE when we move. Her furniture is pretty girly, so the boys won't want it. S has had it for a little while, but since he was a baby/toddler it didn't really matter. One boy will get the bunkbed set, the other will get the maple furniture that is currently in about 3 bedrooms! LOL Hmmm...the full size bed frame matches the maple furniture, so I guess Katie will get the twin...but I could always order her a white bedframe in full size...right?
Why is this important? well, that set I love at Pottery Barn will not be there for a long time. I need to decide WHICH size I need now.
bit of a stressful situation trying to decide. So stressful I may just ignore it all and NOT order it. Who knows, something better may come along. I think she needs the twin size, but who knows if I will even LIKE this bedding when she's ready for it.
Guess I should wait huh? But I want to start on her room so badly (since I can't feed that shopping habit with buying baby girl clothes!).
Why is this important? well, that set I love at Pottery Barn will not be there for a long time. I need to decide WHICH size I need now.
bit of a stressful situation trying to decide. So stressful I may just ignore it all and NOT order it. Who knows, something better may come along. I think she needs the twin size, but who knows if I will even LIKE this bedding when she's ready for it.
Guess I should wait huh? But I want to start on her room so badly (since I can't feed that shopping habit with buying baby girl clothes!).
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